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Emmanuel Michael's avatar

You don’t have to trade your authenticity for opportunity. This word hit me differently l.

Angel's avatar

Thank you for sharing this.

I'm glad I found your newsletter.❤️

Jayceekah's avatar

Lumina is here! Love it.

Tame's avatar

I've always wondered about this, because I'm someone who doesn't know how to hold back. I want to be free to be myself, and I had to restrict my clients from seeing my status on WhatsApp because of the perception issue.

Thank you so much for sharing this!❤️

Temiloluwa Grace Owolabi's avatar

Thank you, Lumina. Thank you for these letters. It brings so much validation.❤️

Karishma Daryani-Chugani's avatar

Missed these letters: gold as always !

Susan Anike Akinpelu's avatar

Thank you Adaora.

This was insightful and if I’m being honest, my current reality sits between being enough and feeling the need to still measure up. I love creating and curating, I love showing up as myself but then there’s this idea gnawing at the back of my head that I need to show up a certain way to be taken seriously or no one would listen or I can stick to showing up the way I do but the audience will trickle in very slowly.