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Thank you Adaora!

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Now that you wrote this out clearly, I need to go back to check the age is started on a Self awareness/love journey. It's been beautiful so far, everyday I'm still learning how to love me well, but it's worth the whole process. At the end, I want to emerge as one that is well loved by myself, gives out love without holding back and knows how to receive love abundantly. Thank you for sharing this with me.

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I remembered i had to accept a guy Jes bcus he loves me then and my friends pushed me to. The guy loves me as a lover buh i love him as a friend. While "Dating" i tried to figure out why I'm dating him buh i couldn't. For 9yrs i do this. Wasted years i will say. Not until i decided to clear off n be me. When we broke up i realized i love him, buh i still ask myself " is it that you love him or you too used to him that you don't wanna let go". This has been my question overtime.Buh still d guy wants us back.

Buh nevertheless, in 2yrs now, i love me.

Thanks for this mama...... ❤️❤️❤️

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The love for yourself was indeed tangible and I felt it in your descriptions. You are absolutely right on loving yourself truly first before attracting the kind of love you already are familiar with because you have felt it.

I hope we all find a love that is true, a love that is deep and a love that makes us feel safe to be our realest selves.

xx

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I loveee every word of this, it came at the perfect time. God bless you for blessing us with your wisdom.

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Lovvveettt!

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Love it, & you too sis for being so intentional, & consistently so, in loving yourself. At first, I thought you were writing about Mummy Sweeney -but halfway through, realized it was about you loving you, fiercely & loyally 👸🏽 The 2nd commandment too. 🥰👌🏾

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Thank you so much for this. I am going to be intentional about loving me

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Jan 23, 2022Liked by Adaora Lumina Mbelu

Beautiful Beautiful read!!!!

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Jan 23, 2022Liked by Adaora Lumina Mbelu

Worth every minute.💜💜

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